This topic is currently not a topic I have to worry about right now But notice it showing up a lot on my Facebook. I know it hard out there to find the one that you feel like you are compatible too. In today’s time frame you have several choices on how to date. You can go online sites, though your friends or other methods not mentioned. I found Jennifer through a Christian group called singles in his steps. Each person is different on what they are looking for. There are a few points to keep in mind when dating in a Christian Biblical atmosphere.
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The first one is to be equally yoked. No, I am not talking about eggs. I am talking about believing in the same God or faith. the bible mentions in 2 Corinthians 6:14 “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?” As God wants you to find a mate that believes in Him so you will not stumble in your walk.
The next one to me is what is called the love chapter. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 it says “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” In this, I would find someone that is all this and can be your support in the hard times and good times. relationships are not always going to be roses, I promise you will have bad times and good times.
The last one I going to leave you with is it not a bad thing to be single. God knows your heart and wants you to find the right one. The right one will come when you are least expecting it. In Proverbs 16:3 it says “Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” Also in James 1:5 it mentions “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” Go out with your single friends enjoy life and do not think you have to find the right one right now. Pray for God to send you the right one in his time.
As you go though today I pray that you are walking in his way pray for all the single people out in this world that are lonely and think they are lost in this world. If you are married take a single person under your wing and help them through their journey in life. If you are single find a great group of believers to hang out with. I know I did when I needed help in life. Some churches do not have a strong single group find one that does.
Have a blessed day,
Carlton Lucas Moss